Common couple violence (CCV) is a type of domestic violence identified by researcher Michael Johnson as a relationship dynamic "in which conflict occasionally gets ‘out of hand’, leading usually to ‘minor’ forms of violence, and more rarely escalating into serious, sometimes even life-threatening, forms of violence” Johnson contrasts CCV with "Patriarchal terrorism," (PT) a more unilateral form of domestic violence in which a husband engages in a pattern of abuse to control a wife, who does not reciprocate with physical aggression.
In CCV, acts of violence by men and women occur at fairly equal rates, with rare occurrences of injury, and are not committed in an attempt to control a partner. It is estimated that around 50% of couples experience CCV in their relationships.
CCV is characterized by a few main traits:
- Mode
- Mildly aggressive behavior such as throwing objects, ranging to more aggressive behaviors such as pushing, slapping, biting, scratching, or hair pulling.
- Frequency
- Less frequent than PT, occurring once in a while during an argument or disagreement.
- Severity
- Milder than PT, rarely escalates over time from mild to more severe abuse, would not include injuries that were serious or caused one partner to be admitted to a hospital.
- Mutuality
- Violence is equally expressed by both partners in the relationship
- Intent
- Occurs out of anger rather than as a means for gaining control and power over the other partner.
In 2005, Milardo reported that women are more likely to initiate CCV in common dating scenarios (83% of female subjects were "at least somewhat likely" to use mild to moderate violence, compared to 53% of men). Furthermore, men reported higher rates of fearing they'd suffer CCV (70% of men vs. 50% of women). When quizzed on the use of more serious violence analogous to Patriarchal or Intimate Terrorism, Milardo found that women were again more likely to approve of its use against a partner. However, women had higher rates of fearing they'd be seriously battered.
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